Get Me The Hell Off of This Roller Coaster: The Cycles Of Singlehood After Divorce

I’m now 4 years out from my separation and over 2 years out from divorce.  One of the most challenging aspects of my post divorce life is the ups and downs of dating and relationships. It often feels like a roller coaster of emotions, and I can’t lie, I get motion sickness easily.  I’ve barfed … More Get Me The Hell Off of This Roller Coaster: The Cycles Of Singlehood After Divorce

6 Reasons To Avoid Relationship Articles Starting With Numbers, and 1 Reason Why You Should Click on This Long Ass Article Title Anyways.

I read way too much internet relationship advice, and as I’ve said before on here that much of the dating/relationship advice from the Internet is garbage.  Click bait bait articles with numerical titles are some of the most annoying advice columns. Now I promise you I’m a hypocrite here.  Little miss DrBB, social science professor … More 6 Reasons To Avoid Relationship Articles Starting With Numbers, and 1 Reason Why You Should Click on This Long Ass Article Title Anyways.

Of Geese and Men

I decided to go for a nice jog today.  I wanted to enjoy one of summer’s last gasps of warm evening air, and the kids were gone to Daddy’s.  I love these long weekends where I’m child free and I get to pretend that I’m young and single again.  Oh wait, I am am single, … More Of Geese and Men

“She Said She Was Curvy But She was Shaped Like a Straw”

You would think that folks in middle age would have developed the ability to take an outside look at themselves and truly assess who they are.  This inability to self assess manifests in dating, especially online dating.  I’ve always been warned about all of the evil liars in online dating, and yes, there are some … More “She Said She Was Curvy But She was Shaped Like a Straw”

The #ShoeRepairman

I guess my #shoerepairman is special to me.  Special in all of the odd, complicated, and wonderful ways that an almost 40 year old never married man with two kids can be.  The first time I met him, his crazy behind wanted me to walk laps around the lake–no dinner no drinks just fuckin’ laps.  … More The #ShoeRepairman